
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace.
I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!
Kategorien: Gesundheit
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Do you still think about your ex a lot?
What’s been the hardest part of moving on?
Today, Jay shares a heartfelt and practical guide for anyone moving through heartbreak. He explains that the pain of a breakup often comes from more than just losing someone, but it’s grieving the life we imagined with them and the version of ourselves we felt when we were loved.
Jay walks through seven clear steps to help listeners begin their healing journey. From gaining clarity to quieting the overthinking spiral and finding your own closure, he offers real, actionable tools to help you move forward. Jay reminds listeners that you’re not missing them, you’re missing the idea of them. And that pain doesn’t mean the relationship was meant to be, it means you cared.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to Stop Romanticizing the Past
How to Stop Blaming Yourself
How to Rebuild After a Breakup
How to Trust Yourself Again
How to Know It Wasn’t Love
Healing is possible even if it doesn't feel like it right now. It’s not about getting back to who you were before, it’s about becoming someone stronger, wiser, and more self-aware.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
00:53 Are You Heartbroken?
03:18 Step #1: Let Go of the Fantasy You Created
07:08 The Three Most Important Things in a Relationship
08:45 Step #2: Stop the Obsession Spiral
13:39 Step #3: Kill the Narrative that It Was Your Fault
17:28 Step #4: Find Closure On Your Own Terms
19:42 Step #5: Feeling Pain Doesn't Mean It Was Meant to Be
21:37 Step #6: Redirect Your Energy
22:18 Step #7: Stop Waiting to Feel Ready
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686 - If You Can’t Get Over Your Ex—Listen to This! (7 Steps to Stop Obsessing and FINALLY Move on After a Breakup) Fri, 20 Jun 2025
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685 - Jay's Must-Listens: Stop Living Paycheck to Paycheck! 4 Money Experts Break Down How to FINALLY Achieve Financial Freedom (Even If You’re Starting From Zero!) Ft. Codie Sanchez And Scott Galloway Wed, 18 Jun 2025
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683 - If Your Life Hasn’t Gone to Plan — This is For YOU! (6 Step Framework To Take Back Control and Build The Life You Want!) Fri, 13 Jun 2025
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682 - Wim Hof: Do THIS 10-Minute Breathing Exercise And ACTUALLY Lower Your Risk of Disease And Calm Your Anxiety Wed, 11 Jun 2025
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681 - Simon Sinek: Not Every Friendship Is Meant to Last—And That’s Okay! (THIS is How to Know If It’s Time To Walk Away From Adult Friendships That No Longer Fit) Mon, 09 Jun 2025
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680 - Stop Chasing Emotionally Unavailable People (Listen To This To Attract a Long Term Relationship And Stop Wasting Your Time In The Wrong Ones) With Lisa Bilyeu Fri, 06 Jun 2025
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679 - Jay’s Must-Listens: If You’re Feeling Stuck Use These 4 Methods To ACTUALLY Manifest What You Really Want (Ft. Roxi Nafousi and Dr. Tara Swart) Wed, 04 Jun 2025
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678 - Sleep Expert Matthew Walker: Do THIS to Sleep Through The Night And Never Wake Up Tired Again Mon, 02 Jun 2025
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677 - Stop Chasing Love! (How to Shift Your Mindset to Start Attracting It) With Tinx Fri, 30 May 2025
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676 - If You’re a People Pleaser Listen to This! (Why Putting Yourself First Isn’t Selfish, It’s Necessary For Real Connection) Wed, 28 May 2025
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675 - Sadia Khan: Stop Ignoring Red Flags! (How to Train Your Brain to Know When To Walk Away) Mon, 26 May 2025
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674 - Do THIS to Stop Spiraling (7 Steps to Instantly Break the Cycle of Negative Thoughts) Fri, 23 May 2025
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673 - The Easiest Way to Start Investing Today— No Experience Needed (You Just Need $1!) with Robinhood CEO Wed, 21 May 2025
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672 - Communication Expert Vinh Giang: Why You Keep Getting Interrupted (How to Use Your Voice So People ACTUALLY Listen) Mon, 19 May 2025
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671 - 7 Harsh Truths I Wish I Knew in My 20’s (I Would’ve Found My Purpose QUICK!) Fri, 16 May 2025
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670 - Comedian Bert Kreischer: My Constant Battle with My Inner Critic (Overcoming Anxiety, Chasing Approval & The Pressure to Be Funny) Wed, 14 May 2025
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669 - Vanessa Van Edwards: Stop Overthinking Every Social Interaction! (Use THESE Cues to Be Liked, Respected, and Build Confidence in Every Conversation) Mon, 12 May 2025
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668 - The 15 Minute Morning Reset (Do This Today to Completely Recharge Your Mind and Body) Fri, 09 May 2025
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667 - Jay's Must- Listens: Before You Text Your Ex… Listen to This! 5 Love Experts Share the SECRET to Let Go and Move On (Ft. Esther Perel, Mel Robbins, & Matthew Hussey) Wed, 07 May 2025
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666 - Khloé Kardashian: My Side that Nobody Knows (Truth Behind Headlines, Divorce, Co-Parenting) Mon, 05 May 2025
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665 - Do THIS 2 Minute Trick To Stop a Negative Spiral INSTANTLY (Overthinkers You Need to Hear This Episode!) Fri, 02 May 2025
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664 - Jay’s Must-Listens: 5 Nutrition Experts on the Foods to Eat (and Avoid) to Improve Digestion and Stop Bloating (Ft. Dr. Casey Means & The Glucose Goddess) Wed, 30 Apr 2025
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663 - Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson: Break the Generational Patterns Holding You Back (How to Build Confidence, Responsibility, and Emotional Resilience) Mon, 28 Apr 2025
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662 - You Are Not Responsible For Other People’s Feelings (How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt) Fri, 25 Apr 2025
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661 - Humble the Poet: Transform Your Relationship With Anxiety (6 Strategies for Overthinkers Wed, 23 Apr 2025
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660 - Deepak Chopra: How to Ask AI The RIGHT Questions To Grow, Heal, and Live a More Fulfilled Life Mon, 21 Apr 2025
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659 - Is Your Ex Keeping You From Finding Real Love? 5 Hidden Signs You Are Missing Fri, 18 Apr 2025
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658 - Kate Cassidy EXCLUSIVE: Sharing Her Last Conversation with Liam Payne and The Real Story Behind Their Relationship Wed, 16 Apr 2025
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657 - Dr. Vonda Wright: Formula to Lose Weight and Gain Muscle (Why your Current Workout is Not Giving You Results) Mon, 14 Apr 2025
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656 - Why Making New Friends Feels Exhausting As An Adult (And How to Make It Easier) Fri, 11 Apr 2025
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655 - Jay’s Must-Listens: 7 Transformative Lessons to Build Confidence And Real Self Worth (Ft. Kobe Bryant & Kendall Jenner) Wed, 09 Apr 2025
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654 - LIZZO EXCLUSIVE: “Releasing The Weight Has Affected People” The Real Transformation Story She’s Never Shared Before Mon, 07 Apr 2025
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653 - Do This Every Morning to Boost Energy & Stay Focused (3 Minute Habit to Kickstart Your Day) Fri, 04 Apr 2025
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652 - Jay’s Must Listens: What Every Parent Needs to Hear Right Now—How to Raise Confident & Emotionally Strong Kids (Ft. Dr. Amen & Kim Kardashian) Wed, 02 Apr 2025
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651 - David Blaine: I Nearly Died Doing This (How to Conquer Fear and Push Your Limits) Mon, 31 Mar 2025
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650 - 5 steps To Find Your Purpose (The Fast Track To Build The Life You Want) Fri, 28 Mar 2025
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649 - Suneera Madhani: Why Most Founders Fail—7 Things You Must Do to Succeed Wed, 26 Mar 2025
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648 - Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You’ve Never Heard Before Mon, 24 Mar 2025
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647 - Best Dating Advice For People In Their 30s (You're Not Behind) Fri, 21 Mar 2025
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646 - Hannah Berner: Why Getting Fired Was the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me Wed, 19 Mar 2025
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645 - Wendy Suzuki: 2 Powerful Tools To Use When You Feel Stressed Out (This Will Lower Your Anxiety in 1 Minute) Mon, 17 Mar 2025
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644 - All You Need is 1 YES (How To Push Through Rejection) Fri, 14 Mar 2025
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643 - Lewis Howes: The Scarcity Belief That’s Blocking You from Making Money & How to Feel Rich Even When You’re Broke Mon, 10 Mar 2025
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642 - This Mindset Shift Will Instantly Make You More Successful Than 90% of People Fri, 07 Mar 2025
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641 - Telepathy Tapes Creator Ky Dickens Reveals Shocking NEW Evidence on the Link Between Telepathy and Non-Speakers with Autism Mon, 03 Mar 2025
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640 - Do This Every Morning to NOT Feel Tired & Focus Your Mind Fri, 28 Feb 2025
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639 - Jay’s Must-Listens: 6 Love Experts Reveal How to Finally Attract the Right Relationship! Featuring Joe Dispenza & Lori Gottlieb Wed, 26 Feb 2025
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638 - Jillian Turecki: 3 Biggest Dating Mistakes You’re Making (Stop Chasing Love That’s Not For You) Mon, 24 Feb 2025
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637 - 30-Day Breakup Detox to Reclaim Your Life & Rebuild Your Confidence Fri, 21 Feb 2025